Dan Jones shared 4 months ago
Dan Jones shared 4 months ago

If you're happy and you know it, it's your meds.

I'm looking for some advice, maybe just a sharing of experiences. I'm thinking about changing careers, but not sure how to do it.

Let me give some background.

I'm finding lately that I'm not very happy with my career. I never intended to become a web developer. It just kind of happened. I do enjoy programming, but it's something I enjoy more as a hobby than a job. Nevertheless, I've been doing it full time for close to twenty years now. I'm also good at it, and am regularly praised by my coworkers for my work. And I make good money doing it. (And that's important to me.)

But I have a degree in theater. I thought I might be an actor when I was younger. I'm also good at that, but haven't done it for years. I miss doing things that are more creative. I miss acting.

I thought I might be able to find time to do other things in my non-work time, but honestly, I don't really have much time in my non-work time. My wife says she'd support me doing community theater or something like that. But, we've got four kids under the age of 15 (3 of whom are under 10), and three of them have ADHD, so they're a handful. If I were spending several hours a few days a week for a couple months at a time away from my family, I'd feel guilty, and wouldn't enjoy it.

So, I've thought maybe I could consider an actual career change.

But, I don't really know how I'd do it. I feel like if I tried to change careers, I'd have to take a huge pay cut (not an option at all), and who knows if I'd actually be any happier. I'm not even sure what I would do yet. I just know that I'd really like a change.

Has anybody on here tried a career change? Did it work out? Were you able to maintain close to your same salary? Any advice or thoughts on the process?

Dan Jones shared 4 months ago
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I once wrote some PHP code that looked like this:

// 🎶 I put my thang down, flip it, and reverse it
return array_flip(array_intersect(array_flip($allTests), $chosenTestKeys));

A few months later, I came back to this code, and noticed my comment had been changed.

// I put my thing down, flip it, and reverse it

I looked at git blame to see who had mangled my comment. His git commit message was "Fix intermittent failing test", as if my comment somehow had something to do with an intermittently failing test.

This was eight years ago. I never got a chance to change my comment back. To this day, I can't hear a song by Missy Elliott and not be annoyed at the other dev who messed up my comment.

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-Allo. La police!

-Oui.

-Des voleurs' m'ont attaqué.

-Combien de voleurs?

-Sept.

-Tu dis?

-Je dis sept.

-Dix-sept?

-Mais non; sans dix; sept!

-Cent dix-sept?

-Mais non, sept sans dix.

-Comment, sept cent dix?

-Mais non, sept, sans dix; sept!

-C'est trop. Sept cent dix-sept voleurs.

-Non! Non! Je dis: sept, sans dix, sept.

-Oh-là-là! Dix-sept cent dix-sept voleurs! Au revoir.

I posted this four years ago, but it's even more relevant now.

Parody of a Garbage Pail Kids card. The Garbage Pail Kids logo is at the top. Along the bottom is the character name: Donald Dump. The character is Donald Trump as a toddler. He's sitting on a golden toilet while wearing a blue business suit, his pants down at his ankles. On the floor is a briefcase with dollar bills spilling out of it onto the floor. On the back of the toilet is a spray can which says "Hair Spray". On the left side of the wall, partially out of view, is the Mona Lisa with a label on top saying "Fired". On the ride side of the wall is a painting of New York City overlooking "Dump Plaza". Donald is pulling some toilet paper off the roll, but the toilet paper is actually the Constitution of the United States.
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Parody of a Garbage Pail Kids card. The Garbage Pail Kids logo is at the top. Along the bottom is the character name: Donald Dump. The character is Donald Trump as a toddler. He's sitting on a golden toilet while wearing a blue business suit, his pants down at his ankles. On the floor is a briefcase with dollar bills spilling out of it onto the floor. On the back of the toilet is a spray can which says "Hair Spray". On the left side of the wall, partially out of view, is the Mona Lisa with a label on top saying "Fired". On the ride side of the wall is a painting of New York City overlooking "Dump Plaza". Donald is pulling some toilet paper off the roll, but the toilet paper is actually the Constitution of the United States.

Dan Jones shared 4 months ago

Me: looks for a watchband on Amazon for a very specific smartwatch.

Me: Finds one I like and purchases it.

Amazon: (the next day by email) Since you like watchbands, here's some deals on a bunch of other watchbands for completely different watches.

Me: 🙄